Online Therapy for Perfectionists in Georgia

I am offering services exclusively online for the foreseeable future.

I miss seeing my clients in person! I love the high-resolution experience of being in the same room as my clients. At the same time, I don't miss the commute or parking or being limited geographically. I've loved working with people who live in Georgia, but far enough away that it wouldn't have been practical for us to meet in my office.

You may be wondering if online therapy would work for you. Everyone has different needs and priorities, and video sessions might not offer what you need.

If you're feeling skeptical about online therapy, you're not alone. I've heard therapists, clients, and even family members express doubts about the effectiveness of online therapy. After having so many awkward conversations with family members and coworkers in multi-person calls, is there any reason for you to believe that online therapy would work for you?

Computer monitor with visible video meeting (depression therapy) on a desk showing a hand writing in a notebook.

Some Considerations

It’s important to think about whether seeing a therapist online would work for you personally. Here are some things to take into account.

Zoom Fatigue

If you've had enough of talking to people through devices, telehealth won't be a great fit! Online therapy would be one more video meeting, and that might be the last thing you need. 

On the other hand, if your concern is more about connecting through video with someone you've never met before, I can tell you that that particular challenge has not been an issue for my current clients.

Telehealth for depression. Hands writing in a notebook with a pen and a mug of coffee.

I get constant feedback about the quality of the support and connection my clients feel. After every session, clients fill out a survey about their experience. Because I have that data, I can be confident that it's not just my gut feeling - my relationships with clients genuinely have not suffered since I started working online. 

Travel

In-person sessions look and sound great — I never have to fumble with headphones or switch to a backup phone call when I'm meeting someone in person. That said, even before COVID, meeting in person had its downsides. Fitting in counseling sessions during a busy work week is daunting for most people. You don't live or work next door to the therapist who's the best fit for you, and you might not want to compromise on that question. Driving across town, fighting traffic, adding another commute to an already-long day makes therapy an added stressor. Online counseling is a convenient and flexible option that takes the travel time out of the occasion so you can maximize your focus on the session itself and save commute time for your daily therapy practice. Where the tradeoffs land for you will be a matter of personal preference.

Flexibility

Increased flexibility may be precisely what you need to make therapy work in your current circumstances. Carving out time for one more thing in your life is the last thing you need when you're feeling worried or down. You're looking for a counselor who not only understands what life has been like for you lately but who can help you make measurable (and we will measure it!) changes that will last. The skills you can gain and the growth you can experience in therapy aren't skills most of us learn when we're children. Most of them aren't things we learn at work or in our relationships. If we're lucky, we get bits and pieces here and there, and still, a lot of days feel almost unbearably hard. You have a distinct feeling your life could be a lot richer, a lot more enjoyable than it is right now. And whether it's for health reasons or because travel is inconvenient or even out of reach, in-person therapy just isn't going to work for you right now.

Pick a Therapist, Any Therapist

One vastly under-sung advantage of online therapy is that you have lots more options now! Instead of settling for the best fit therapist in your zip code, you can search the whole state for your ideal clinician. Finding someone you trust and feel connected to is crucial to effective therapy.

Therapists can only work with clients who live in states where they hold licenses to practice. When we're working in person, though, it's even more limited. When you need to choose someone within a ten-mile radius of your house, you're less likely to find a great fit. If you see a therapist online, you have vastly more options. 

When I was working with clients exclusively in person, it would've been impractical to see someone living in Savannah! Even for those in metro Atlanta, you may be close enough in theory, but a daily commute that takes you from Sandy Springs to downtown Atlanta would make it tough to get to Tucker. If you live in Alpharetta or Athens, Covington or Columbus, it's now just as convenient for us to work together as it would be if you lived around the corner from me in Decatur.

Will it work for you?

 

The key ingredients to a great online session are:

Reliable Internet

In some circumstances, it's impossible to make any changes to the quality of your connection. You can, however, check your current connection to see if it'll support quality video chat. Connecting directly to ethernet is one relatively cheap change you can make if your wi-fi is the source of a slow connection.

A Quiet Space

The most important ingredient in successful online therapy is a quiet, private space where you can set up your device so that you don't have to hold it yourself. You'll also get the most out of sessions if you have something to write with and something to write on.

Headphones

Headphones aren't a strict necessity, but it's helpful to have them as an option because they sometimes solve problems like echo and cutting out sound when speakers overlap. They also help to increase privacy by a bit, though of course, anyone else in the room would still hear your end of the conversation.

 

Every-Body-Affirming

Bit by Bit Counseling is an antiracist, LGBTQ affirming, kink and polyamory welcoming, body, sex, and fat positive, HAES promoting practice.

Professional info

I have two BAs from Penn State in Spanish and French, and an MS from Mercer University in Clinical Mental Health Counseling. I'm a Licensed Professional Counselor in the state of Georgia (LPC 011362) and a Level 3 TEAM therapist.

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